Patsy Loray Barber
Patsy Loray Barber went to be with our Lord and Savior on Jan. 21, 2020. She was born Dec. 22, 1955, in Bartlesville, Okla., to Wayne and Mona Grigsby. Patsy was the younger of two children. She graduated from Sooner High School in1974.
On Jan. 11, 1975, Patsy married Jerry Lee Barber, the love of her life. During the next few years, she became the proud mother of three children, Candi, Cindy, and Kenneth. Patsy loved her family without measure. She gave all of herself, then found a way to give even more. She cherished every moment she had with Jerry and the children.
Patsy was immensely talented, singing and playing guitar. Her love for her family and music was outweighed only by her love for her savior, Jesus Christ. She served faithfully in numerous capacities in her church since her teens, and was the embodiment of the scripture, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." She loved without limit, gave till it hurt, and lived for Jesus till the end. She will be sorely missed.
She is preceded in death by her husband, Jerry; her parents, Wayne and Mona Grigsby; her brother, DeWayne Grigsby; her father and mother-in-law, Herman and Betty Barber; her brothers-in-law, James Heltcel and Donnie Barber.
She is survived by her daughters, Candi Barber and Cindy Foster and husband, Clifford Foster; son, Kenneth Barber; grandchildren, Collyn and Carsyn Foster, and Mattic Meuse; brother and sisters-in-law, Jimmie and Marilyn Priest, Cecelia Heltcel, Kathy Barber; and numerous nieces and nephews, all of whom she loved very much.
Formal visitation will be 3-4:30 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 26, 2020, at Matthews Funeral Home. Services will be 2:30 p.m. Monday, Jan. 27, 2020, at Matthews Funeral Home Chapel with interment to follow at Gracelawn Cemetery in Edmond, Okla.
Published on January 23, 2020


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