Thomas Lane Byerley

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Thomas Lane Byerley

September 15, 1947 - September 17, 2018

With his family by his side, Thomas Lane Byerley of Edmond, Okla., went to be with his Savior Jesus Christ on Sept. 17, 2018, in Fairfax, Va., just two days after turning 71. He was born Sept. 15, 1947, in Dodge City, Kan., to the late Thomas Louis and Lila Irene (Riley) Byerley.
Thomas fully enjoyed the things he chose to do - his was a life well lived. He would do anything for his family. He loved spoiling his grandchildren and spending time with them playing dominoes and Sudoku. There wasn't anything he didn't know how to fix, and he enjoyed working with his sons-in-law on special projects.
Thomas and his wife Karen enjoyed family trips to Hawaii, Japan, South Dakota, Niagara Falls, Canada, Arizona, Utah and Florida and traveled to Stillwater regularly to share in special events with their oldest daughter Dana and her family. Though in different states, Sunday afternoon football was a special bond Thomas shared with daughter Ashlee. He loved his sister Louise, talked with her weekly and traveled to see her regularly.
Making friends and visiting with people wherever he went were some of Thomas' special qualities. He always had a story to tell or would tease you just a little, and he would call things like he saw them. Thomas loved attending Life Church each week and was sure to be there early. He was brilliant, great at math and had an excellent memory. Thomas was a sharp dresser and enjoyed playing golf. If you were lucky, you could get him to play the accordion.
Thomas loved a milkshake from Braum's or Sonic and dining out with his family, including Saturday morning breakfast at Jimmy's Egg. He served as Oklahoma City University Parent Council president with Karen during the time Dana was a student there. Thomas also served as "Dad" to many international students throughout the years.
His early years were spent on the family farm in Minneola, Kan. Thomas met Karen his sophomore year at Fort Hays Kansas State College, where he graduated with his bachelor's degree, earning a double major in chemistry and math. The two were married on Karen's graduation day, May 29, 1970. Thomas enjoyed learning so much that he took numerous classes in pursuit of obtaining his master's degree.
A career in chemical engineering provided opportunities for the family to live in Texas, Colorado and California before calling Oklahoma home for 37 years. Thomas worked for Baroid - where he was awarded a patent for his work that allowed oil rigs to drill more efficiently, Tenneco, USPCI and January Environmental.
Thomas joined Ferguson Environmental Resources (FER) Inc. in 2008 as general manager. He treasured the numerous friendships made and truly enjoyed going to work each day. He retired in 2017 and less than a year later returned to work there part time.
Thomas is preceded in death by his parents; grandson, Caelan Matthew Wallace; and brother-in-law Jon West.
He is survived by his wife of 48 years, Karen Lee Byerley; daughters, Dana Loreal (Andy) Wallace of Stillwater, Okla., and Ashlee Jill (John) Clifton of Alexandria, Va.; adored granddaughters, Kaylee Anne Clifton and Finlea Rose Wallace and beloved grandson Tyler Lee Clifton; sister, Louise West of Minneola, Kan.; and sister-in-law, Carol (Galen) Cooper of Apopka, Fla.
A memorial celebration to honor Thomas' life will be from 1-3 p.m. October 13, 2018, at FER Inc., 11501 S. Interstate 44 Service Road in Oklahoma City, Okla. Graveside services will be held in Russell, Kan., at a future date.
The family would love to receive a card with your special memories of Thomas. You may also add photos and memories at the online guestbook for Thomas at www.DirectCremation
Published on October 3, 2018
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Sandy McDonald
Oct 12, 2018
Tom was a wonderful man and a great friend! I met Tom when I went to work with him at January Transport in 2003. He was so much fun and just a brilliant man. I loved Tom's humor! I called him Thomasville or Beverly and he would call me Sandra (I only got called that when I was in trouble or when Tom was kidding with me) Tom was so special to me.
He was kind and caring and he helped me so many times when things were difficult for me, Tom would show me a way to do things easier. I called him not too long ago and tried to disguise my voice but he was too smart for that and besides, he had caller ID.
I will miss you Tom, you were a true friend and I will miss your smiling face and lovable perso
...nality. I know I will see you again . I pray for peace and comfort for Karen and your family. I know it will not be easy and there won't be a day that you are not thought of and missed but one thing I know for sure is "You made a difference in the world".
I love and miss you!
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The Ferguson Family
Oct 04, 2018
Our prayers are with the Byerley family! Hugs and Love to you! We feel blessed to have Tom in our lives!
The Ferguson Family
Oct 04, 2018
Our prayers are with the Byerley family! Tom was a treasure and a good friend.
Kimberly Dilbeck
Oct 04, 2018
We will miss you so much Tom. I looked forward to seeing your smiling face for the past 14 years. You made work so much fun and you always made me laugh, despite the problems we had that day at work. You are truly a very special person to all of us and to me. You are truly loved.

Kimberly Dilbeck